David and Sally Challen
David and Sally Challen

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David Challen at his mother's appeal
David Challen at his mother's appeal

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James, Sally and David Challen
James, Sally and David Challen

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David and Sally Challen
David and Sally Challen

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My Story

On a Saturday morning in August 2010 my mother, Sally Challen, 56, killed my father, Richard Challen, 61, at the family home with a hammer to the head 20 times. The next day my mother drove me to work whilst my father’s body lay undiscovered on the family kitchen floor, I stepped out of the car and she made a point to tell me she loved me. Afterwards she drove to Beachy Head to end her life but was talked down, arrested and convicted of murder.

In 2015 coercive control was made an offence, in turn it not only helped provide a deeper understanding of domestic abuse in acknowledging psychological and emotional violence it helped provide a language for the abuse my brother and I witnessed from our father. We believed the abuse our mother suffered over 40 years resulted in a loss of control. Coercive control gave my brother and I a voice to speak out. 

We campaigned for over 2 years to bring to light a true understanding of the events that led to our father’s death and in February 2019 we successfully quashed our mother's murder conviction. In June later that year our mother was released from prison on the grounds of diminished responsibility and returned to the family.

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David Challen

David Challen

Domestic Abuse Campaigner

David Challen is a domestic abuse campaigner and keynote speaker. He successfully campaigned to free his mother Sally Challen in a landmark appeal recognising the lifetime of coercive control she suffered in February 2019. 


David continues to speak out against violence against women, coercive control and recognising women's experiences in the criminal justice system

David is a Prison Advice and Care Trust Ambassador (PACT) and a Supporter of the National Centre For Domestic Violence.


Saturday, 13th March 2021

#NotAllMen fails to understand the role we play in holding abusive men to account

Tea with Changemakers Podcast: discussing how to engage more men on tackling male violence against women.

Tuesday, 19th July 2022

Having chosen not to do interviews about my experiences of domestic abuse for more than a year for personal reasons, I'm glad to be back engaging again and most importantly discussing how to engage more men on tackling male violence against women. Many thanks to Social Change UK.

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Monday, 1st March 2021 

Post-separation abuse will become a criminal offence to protect victims

Amid the horrific and saddening news of the murder of Sarah Everard I write today in the Telegraph asking why are so few men engaging on the issue of violence against women?

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Today the government has announced the controlling or coercive behaviour offence will be extended to include abuse where perpetrators and victims no longer live together. This is a vital step forward recognising the full breadth of domestic abuse and that abuse does not stop when a victim leaves an abusive partner. This law will give more victims a voice and the vital protection they have long needed.

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Lenient sentences for domestic abuse killings send a dangerous message

Tuesday, 23rd February 2021 

When I read last week that pensioner Anthony Williams was sentenced to just five years in prison for the manslaughter of his wife Ruth I was left in disbelief. How could it be deemed acceptable that a man intent on harming his wife will be allowed to walk free after what will realistically amount to a couple of years?

Today I've written in the Metro to share my thoughts on the dangerous message this sentencing sends victims of domestic abuse.

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Published Work



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The Case of Sally Challen 

Aired on BBC TWO.

Previously available on BBC iPlayer.

(Viewer link on request via Contact Me section)

A landmark film.

A landmark case in domestic abuse.




"This documentary takes us to the heart of one of the most talked-about British legal cases of recent years."





Many other women who are victims of abuse and violence are in prison today serving life sentences, and I know this because I have met them.

They have suffered abuse and other miscarriages of justice and should be serving sentences for manslaughter and not murder - Sally Challen

No one should become homeless after fleeing domestic abuse in any society, but it is happening in ours right now.


Anyone fleeing domestic abuse must have a guaranteed safe, permanent home”

"2 in 3 families bereaved by fatal domestic abuse have had their grieving process damaged by the press.

In collaboration with Level Up and AAFDA we are calling for better reporting standards so victims feel safe to share their stories without fear of further trauma


Two women a week die at the hands of a partner or ex-partner. Yet less than 1% of perpetrators currently receive an intervention to challenge their behaviour.

We must publish a Perpetrator Strategy.

It’s vital to specifically recognise the bespoke nature of post-separation abuse by ensuring the Domestic Abuse Bill provides a complete acknowledgement of survivors experiences and protection in the future. 




Having spent the majority of my life witnessing the coercive control my mother endured as well experiencing the prison system she lived in for almost a decade, coercive control helped give me the language to speak out and free my mother.

Since that  moment I continue to actively speak out against violence against women as well as the need to promote discussion about healthy/unhealthy relationships.

I have delivered speeches at a variety of events and am keen to help share my story in my role as a PACT and Supporter of the National Centre For Domestic Violence to help others.

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